Family Council

Some of my most fondest memories came from a time when my family would gather together for what was called, Family Council. It was exactly as it sounds where my Dad, usually on a Sunday afternoon would gather the family in the living room for us to have a meeting together. The agenda and topics covered was different each time but the important thing was that we all met together in a setting where we were allowed to talk freely as members of one family. Sometimes we discussed new rules or "family policies" that we all agreed upon. Other times we discussed what changes needed to be made to help things run more smoothly in our house. Many times my parents would teach and share with us gospel principles during these moments. There was always a chance for anyone to bring up matters they wanted to discuss, things that were on their mind, or something that happened to them. We would then plan the week ahead day by day to schedule our time and work out conflicts. 

I will always remember these meetings for several reasons. One of the best things about these councils was that our family learned important communication skills as we talked with each other. We learned how to settle conflicts and how to be respectful of others thoughts and opinions. We also grew together as a united team who were working together with one purpose. These meetings made each of us realize our individual role in our family and that we had a say instead of my parents solely controlling the family. We grew closer and became more unified and for that I will always be grateful.